How Big Should My Social Network Be?

What The Research Says

  • Having a broad social networking, consisting of many strong and weak ties (close friends and acquaintances) has been correlated to increased wages and higher levels of employment.
  • Weak ties are people you might not see more than a few times a year, and are specifically correlated to reduced unemployment and higher wages. The wage effect has been disputed.
  • Having more, strong (positive) social connections has been strongly linked with improved subjective well being and reduced symptoms of depression.
  • Social connections and participation in a community (religious or non-religious) are two of the most reliable predictors of subjective well being.
  • In general, increases in social trust and trust of institutions is correlated with higher subjective well being.
  • Broadly increased number and quality of social connections is correlated with decreased mortality from all causes, for these relationships to be maximally beneficial, they have to be positive.

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The Choices

Broad – There was this one time you met someone you didn’t know, it was kind of weird…

Score: +1 Wealth, +1 Happiness, +1 Health

Narrow – Your friends know you well, your family knows you better, and everyone else knows you as, “that guy.”

Score: +1 Happiness

Isolated – All of last year your family and friends were convinced that you had been kidnapped by a cult, this is likely because that is what the ransom note you sent them to get them off your back said.

Score: -1 Happiness, -1 Health, +1 Risk

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